Archives For Forgiveness

Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. Colossians 3.13

I’m not sure what it is. When I think of ‘bearing with each other’ I think in terms of ‘tolerating’ or ‘putting up with’ someone else. Sometimes it is the person who most irritates us that we need. They expose those areas in our life that we think have been changed or transformed. Not always but sometimes. Sometimes the other person needs change as much as we do. Luckily, we can embrace the grace of God in this process and walk it out together.

The ‘one anothers’ of the New Testament provide a way for us to engage in this spiritual journey together. Not only do we get to ‘walk it out’ together we can also ‘walk into it’ together. Figuring out our spiritual path is not one of isolation, although times of solitude play a part in spiritual formation. We need each other in all this. We can work it out together. We can bear others burdens. We can forgive. We can be forgiven. We can be reconciled. We can walk out love and forgiveness by the grace of God. We can walk into the grace of God and share divine love and forgiveness with others. May grace and love abound to us all….

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Forgiveness

March 7, 2012 — Leave a comment

…forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4.32

The believers in Ephesus are reminded of Christ’s teaching to forgive and recieve forgiveness. In the Gospels it is framed as being conditional. If we don’t forgive we will not receive forgiveness; if we do forgive, we receive forgiveness. The writer frames this another way, the God who forgave us in Christ allows us to forgive each other. The forgiveness of God is complete(d) in Christ. We need to fully enter into it, walk it out, participate in it.

On this side of the cross of Christ, the forgiveness of God is complete and completed. “It is finished!” I can’t earn that forgiveness, I can only receive it. In receiving that forgiveness in Christ, I get to participate in it and extend it to others. For whatever wrongs or perceived wrongs, I can extend grace by forgiving.

Extending that forgiveness is not always an easy task. The memories of our hurts are not easily forgotten. The damage done by others comes to readily to mind. We may never forget, but we can forgive by giving what we have received. That forgiveness will change us and by the grace of God, we can receive healing and restoration of our relationships. Just as Christ stands between us and God, Christ also stands between each of us, reconciling brothers and sisters.

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